Sunday, January 19, 2014

Dedicated to all ladies hoping to find and/or keep love


All I certainly know about men and relationships is that I don’t know anything, however, ladies what I am about to share is what I think I know. The epic disparity between a man and a woman is the sole justification I could come up with why men can’t live without women and women can’t live without men. The feeling of incompleteness causes the burning desire to seek one another.

I am sure you know that relationship is a two way street. The success and failure of a relationship is in the mere hand of the team work between a man and a woman. Often what you get from a relationship is what you give. I believe the best way to know what you ought to give and what you deserve to receive in a relationship is to recognize and understand your disparity with your partner. A lot of women drench in unhealthy relationships because they fail to understand how differently men think, feel, perceive and act. 


Ladies… the 5 basic things I think you need to know about men.
            1.     Men are the simplest creatures
               ·  If a man says he is hungry, it simply means that he wants something edible, therefore, don’t dwell on the man who hasn't come up to you after you eye flirted for hours because he's either not attracted to you or he is in a committed relationship.
2.  Men often act exactly the way they feel and think.
                 ·    If a man is in to you, it only means that he is willing to make the effort to see you at every chance he gets, willing to answer your phone call at any circumstance, willing to layoff some of his men routines, willing to wake up next to you for more than 2 days, willing to make a room for you in his life and willing to eventually put a ring on it.
  3.  Men will always fight for the things they desire
         ·  If a man wants you, he will fight for you and he will definitely fight his own temptations.
   4  Men often know exactly what and who they want.
        ·  If a man doesn't want you, it means that he is neither willing to give nor share his future or fortune with you.
5.  Even though men are physically the strongest, they have the lowest threshold for pain and intense emotions
          ·  If you somehow emotionally hurt a man, don’t waste your time trying to fix the relationship, it often doesn't work out.

Read “Men are From Mars and Womenare from Venus” by John Gray for supplementary tips.