TIME

Today I was thinking about this thing… concept or whatever you wish to call it. 

TIME

Time is the upshot of the past; it’s the logic for the present and the verdict of the future. A wise man once said “Gize Degu” meaning time is kind.

Because of time…

Habte is rolling his latest Mercedes; on the same streets he walked bare foot a decade back.

Hana, is smiling past the intense sorrow from the loss of her beloved son a few years back

Ann is enjoying a romantic dinner with her husband past the profound heartbreak over the jerk who left her for a juvenile

Tina is selling her talent past the darkest days of selling her body

Dan is a loyal server of the lord past his pagan days

Tad, once a helpless enfant,is now a leader changing the world

Helen, a victim of teen bullying is now a teen idol

Buzz,a former slave of a manmade drug is now the master of his emotion

Abey, once a reckless minor is now an ideal husband of a lovely lady and father of 4 kids

Samuel, the grandson of a former slave, is now an intellect leading all former slave owners’ grandsons

Time is the most precious present given to all creatures. Time can change everything…time can rise or tumble every being; so it’s like the other wise man said,

“When a bird is alive…it eats aunts

When the bird dies…aunts eat it

One tree could be made in a million matchsticks

But only one matchstick is needed to burn a million trees

Circumstances might change at any time so don’t devalue or hurt anyone

You may be powerful today but remember…Time is more powerful that you.”

All of the stories above are true; however, names have ben changed to protect the privacy of the individuals.

Dedicated to all ladies hoping to find and/or keep love

All I certainly know about men and relationships is that I don’t know anything, however, ladies what I am about to share is what I think I know. The epic disparity between a man and a woman is the sole justification I could come up with why men can’t live without women and women can’t live without men. The feeling of incompleteness causes the burning desire to seek one another.

I am sure you know that relationship is a two way street. The success and failure of a relationship is in the mere hand of the team work between a man and a woman. Often what you get from a relationship is what you give. I believe the best way to know what you ought to give and what you deserve to receive in a relationship is to recognize and understand your disparity with your partner. A lot of women drench in unhealthy relationships because they fail to understand how differently men think, feel, perceive and act. 

Ladies… the 5 basic things I think you need to know about men.
            1.     Men are the simplest creatures

               ·  If a man says he is hungry, it simply means that he wants something edible, therefore, don’t dwell on the man who hasn't come up to you after you eye flirted for hours because he's either not attracted to you or he is in a committed relationship.
2.  Men often act exactly the way they feel and think.

                 ·    If a man is in to you, it only means that he is willing to make the effort to see you at every chance he gets, willing to answer your phone call at any circumstance, willing to layoff some of his men routines, willing to wake up next to you for more than 2 days, willing to make a room for you in his life and willing to eventually put a ring on it.
  3.  Men will always fight for the things they desire

         ·  If a man wants you, he will fight for you and he will definitely fight his own temptations.

   4.   Men often know exactly what and who they want.

        ·  If a man doesn't want you, it means that he is neither willing to give nor share his future or fortune with you.
5.  Even though men are physically the strongest, they have the lowest threshold for pain and intense emotions

          ·  If you somehow emotionally hurt a man, don’t waste your time trying to fix the relationship, it often doesn't work out.

Read “Men are From Mars and Womenare from Venus” by John Gray for supplementary tips.